just survive the day
Probably the best parenting advice I ever received...well actually, it was more like parenting absolution, came from my Aunt Darlene. She's my Dad's oldest sister and also my confirmation sponsor and also one of my favorite mom role models. (Hi Aunt Dar!). I always feel like talking to her is within a space of non-judgment which is so very refreshing in this world of mom-eat-mom parenting out there. There are so many rules and guidelines and expectations these days on what being a 'perfect parent' looks like, and to be quite honest, going into motherhood for the first time with Greyson, I was all about those rules and my own expectations. My kids will never ...., I will make sure my kids always ... were thoughts I actually had and believed in as a first time mom. Aaaaand then I had a baby and hahhahhhha, to those thoughts. I often wish now that I could go back to that pre-motherhood version of myself and give her a little hug and a kiss on the cheek and sa...